Monday, January 21, 2013

Yes...Yess... WE MADE IT!

Sawatdee ka! ( HELLO) FROM THAILAND!!!!!

Good Afternoon ( but good morning to most of you 12 hr time difference)! I know that it has been quite a while since I last posted and I apologize! We have been uber busy! I will attempt to get all of you up to speed right now with out individually calling each of you =)!!!!

For those of you who have not realized it or have been hibernating for the past month I am in Thailand! lolol! Jan 11th, 2013 my father and cousin Jr., took me to the airport to begin the adventure of a lifetime.  When we arrived at the airport I was almost 200% positive that my father was going to be balling for that reason I gave him a HUGE hug ( that should hold for about 12 months lol) and hopped on the airplane, QUICK! I HAVE NO CLUE what I would have done if I spotted a tear on his cheek! In San Francisco, 50 other Peace Corp trainees and myself began a day long training that ended with each of us deciding what we thought our "last meal" would be! lol Can you guess what I chose? PIZZA and a platter full of greasy deliciousness! I had a slice of cheese pizza and a platter (that i split with another PCV) full of FRIED zucchini, FRIED ravioli, FRIED chicken, FRIED mozzarella sticks, and FRIED ONION RINGS just to name a few ( notice the pattern bahah)! ...BRINGS BACK MEMORIES ( Sorry being dramatic like my sisters... it slips at times)
The next morning, bright and early, we were off to the airport at 5 am for a 21 hr flight!  Once we were on the plane, we sat for an extra 2 hrs for "mechanical issues"....Thanking the Lord that we were not in the air when those were founded.  The ride to Thailand not too bad; a little turbulence ( and by little I am referring to the time limit because the turbulence was a bit extreme and scary haha )  with one stop in Japan.

Finally in Thailand!!!! WHATTT TO EXPECT NEXT!

THE PEACE CORPS staff was waiting for us as we got off the plane! HUGE smiles and these amazing peace corps sign that gave me instant energy from that long flight eating every 1 hour haha! It was like nothing I could even have dreamt! I could literally not stop smiling! You think it hit me yet! not at all! haha At this point I start questioning my sanity.  I left family, friends, work and a WHOLE continent and I am still not nervous in the least! so I take a poll and ask other PCV's how they are feeling and they feel the same way! **whew close call for a minute there I ALMOST believed I could be a little off ;) **  Newho a party bus which actually wasn't a party bus, all Thai buses look like this, came to pick us up and take us to the hotel, which we would stay in for the next week until we moved in with our host families!

Getting your body acclimated to a 12 hr time change is not as easy as it sounds, if it sounds easy! Through the week we had several different culture sessions, language sessions, events, coffee breaks, and meals that required you to be well rested for the next day.  As some of you may have noticed my social networking at 1 and 2 pm your time , its is because I have been falling asleep around 9pm, waking up at 1am -2 am, going back to sleep at 5:30 only to wake at 6.  My excitement and motivation have been my red bull for the past week!

The week started off very easy, simply informing us of what was to come, taking pictures, discussing when and when not to 'Wai' and getting a few shots! Then Tuesday we are informed that we will be meeting the Governor and the Chief of District and we MUST be able to introduce ourselves and state where we are from! I know I know thats exactly what 51 other people were thinking! HOW in the world! haha but with the help of our AMAZING language adjuns we did it and it was amazing! After conquering that feat, you think what could be next, nothing that I cant do!!!  boy did they have a surprise waiting on me!

BIKING! YIKE YIKES YIKE! day one of biking DISASTER... sadly I let the bike get the best of me!  and I called it a night early and went to bed! I woke up feeling refreshed, Imessaged some people, and said a long prayer! Next morning I was feeling GREAT and ready to go! ON THIS DAY FRIDAY JAN 19th, me and my bike became (almost) one! haha! I had to ride the bike and not let the bike ride me! We biked over 20 k! and I was still alive although I pulled something on the way in.... I DID IT!!! Thanks to some wonderful counterparts for keeping me motivated and sticking with me even when I was in the back! Once at the hotel, although in pain, we walk to Tesco Lotus which was like a walmart to do some last minute things before we move into homestayyy!!!!  I know that I skipped a few important events that took place ie I SAW A BABY ELEPHANT ..like really walking down the street and this amazing opening ceremony! but I want to get to everything without making this tooooooo long! The Thai people are just as friendly as you have probably heard!  Being from Georgia, my instinct is to Sawatdee/ Wai everyone as we walk down the street.  The reaction does not help, they seem to get almost as excited as me when they hear me speak Thai.  For this reason, I continued!

YAAYYY THE BIIIIGGGG DAY!!! WE MEET OUR HOST FAMILY!!!!

Saturday was truly the first day I felt a smidge of nerves! All these thoughts racing.... what will they be like, where will they live, WILL I HAVE TO BIKE FAR (PLZ NO), will they be able to speak english, will they like me.  Finally the moment came, we met up in the big training room, flower in hand, 51 PCV's on one side and the host families on the other side divided by tambons (kind of like counties) .  They continue to make us wait through some reminders for the host families.... And finally with something said in Thai all of the host families pull out these envelopes! They also had NO idea who they would be bringing home.... Next they all open their envelopes and inside are pictures of their new family member! Heart throbbing I can barely see through the excited  PCV's as well as their new families.  YESSS, my moment has arrived I see someone holding my photo, a horrible photo might I add, I run over, leaving all of my things and greet the young women who actually speaks a little english.  She greets me with a smile on her face and brings me to my new MAE (mom).  Overly excited, I instantly start spewing out every single piece of language that I had learned! My mae was just as excited as I! My adjun then came and translated for us! They welcomed me, told me I was part of the family, and asked for me to call her mama ( mae)!

We went to the hub got my bike and went to what I would know as my home for the next 3 months. I met my 2 brothers and Pa. I unpacked into my room and felt right at home! I then helped cook a yummy meal, in which I have no clue how to spell but It was fun and by march 2015 Ill have all that down! Then my sister left and everyone was going to sleep, then Pa came knocked on my door and brought mango with sugar and chile! yummm we sat on my floor attempted some convo but bonded nevertheless!

 Sunday is officially family day! We went to an amazing wedding! I danced as the groom was bringing in the gifts! Everyone was soooooo kind and friendly! people were running up to me giving me hugs and wanting a picture with me! It was absolutely beautiful! I was introduced to everyone as the other daughter although laughs followed. Everyone was quite receptive and to be honest.... I was not sure how I would be received due to my skin complexion.  If you do not know here in Thailand the lighter you are the prettier and vice versa.  Thankfully, this has not been an issue thus far!

We then went to the Sumchuck market which is a famous market here in Suphan Buri and everyone was so kind and bright! The childrens faces light up as I smile, wave or wai! Its is truly beautiful! Now we are home! I just taught my sister the word NAP and my brother is heading back to the University and he graduates in May ( just like Reuben!haha)

In summary! I am great! (No worries) Lots of fun, food and family!!! Sawatdee ka!


The view in San Fran

WE ARE HERE!!!

Loading up the suitcases



PARTY BUSSSSS lol



My Welcome Kit


Hotel Room and my roomie! 

MALL TIME

The dressing room -__-

My elephant friend that showed up as we were eating! I want one!

OUR AMAZING ADJUNS! 

A random sign lol that i was like 0_0

Our Governor meeting set up! so official right haha

MEEEE! A LITTLE TO HYPE HAHA

HERE IT GOESSS BIKE TIME

ME and MY NEW BIKE! 

MY FAMILY!!!

MY SISTER!

COOKING ALREADY! 


ENDING PRODUCT

Pa and me! 

Me and sis before wedding at 6 am lol

glimpse of wedding











Hope you enjoyed check back soon for some more updates!!!


Sunday, January 6, 2013

Two Suitcases and A Carry On.....

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

I hope that your holidays have been filled with family, friends and tons of fun!

Since I posted last I have spent time with family and friends, had birthday celebrations, a drop in, a party, Christmas with family and about 1000 breakfasts, lunches, and dinners! ( probably gained another me but will be riding a bike for 2 yrs. so I'm sure I'll be okay!!) 
I came to Marietta to spend some quality time with my mother and sisters ( as well as get mom to make a few last minute purchases lol).  As my little sister and I create a packing check list of "necessities", I realize there is ABSOLUTELY no way to pack for 2 years ( in my world haha).  I have exactly 6 days before I leave for San Francisco, California and 7 days before I leave for THAILANDDDDD!!!! 

The craziest part is the nerves have yet to hit me!  I have terminated with my precious clients and begun the closing of my life here in the US, I honestly believed that I would be boohooing by now! ( and if you know me I am sure you were/are thinking the same thing haha) I have this amazing sense of calm right now that I am oh so grateful for.  I believe a major part of the calm comes from a number of things.  Months ago I would have been stressed, worried, nervous, thinking about what ifs and trying to save the world, (and by world I mean people, places, and situations in which I have no control) but recently I had a talk with a good friend and he reminded me that I can't just say I am walking by faith; but I have to do it! And so I did! Literally, everything began to fall into place!

Now, I am headed to Thailand, all of my sisters are in stable jobs and moving up(or getting there) !, my brother is graduating, and my little sister is working towards all that she wants to do! Proud/ happy is a definite understatement! Knowing that all of my CRAZY( I AM THE ONLY SANE ONE ... NOT LAUGHING) siblings are doing well is all I need! I can leave for Thailand NOW...like today Jan. 5th !!! haha!
SOoOo... as I was backing out of my driveway to take my niece and nephew to load up on junk food,    ( thats my job right?! haha) there in the middle of our driveway crept a Crane! We were so confused...He or she looked so out of place!  It was so unexpected! How crazy and random!  I then find that in several cultures, the Crane has symbolic meaning! ( Thanks Tam)

HERE IS WHAT I FOUND:
          The Crane is considered a messenger of God, or a symbol of communion with God, or Light        Beings. It represents entering higher states of consciousness. In China, it represents immortality, long life and happiness. In Ancient Greece and Rome, the Crane was sacred to Apollo and was a herald of spring. In Christianity, it represents goodness, loyalty, good order. 

ISN'T THAT CRAZY AND SPECTACULAR AT THE SAME TIME!!!! I'M STILL IN SHOCK! This alone increased my excitement for the new year and what was to come for me and my family/friends!  And lastly,  ALLLLLL of the support and kind words that I have been receiving! To know that several thousand miles away, there are boundless number of people who are supporting you, asking you to post pictures, requesting your address to send you care packages, writing down your account number, just in case, reading your blog, missing you as you miss them and constantly praying for you, can bring about nothing but ease.   I have truly been blessed with the people in my life as well as the random strangers who have been placed in my path recently.  
ANNNNDDDD....
Yes, closing all parts of my life would seem very difficult... packing my whole life in 2 suitcases and a carry on would be scary.... but if this journey was not meant for me, I would not be on it! So this time next week me and my 2 suitcases will be on an airplane heading to Thailand! I hope this has helped some of you WORRYWARTS chill a bit! Love you all! Until next time! ( in Thailand that is) 

A few pics of my past month! 



Saying goodbye to my baby brother

FUN TIMES 

Me and my sisters! 

Saying goodbye to my nieces! 

My party flyer

My pandora charm! from my boss... isn't it cute! #support!

 
The note my Goddaughter wrote me! 
 
hanging with the homies

 
Random pics

 
Random pics

 Random pics


Thursday, December 13, 2012

OMG .... ITS GETTIN REEEAAALLLL!!! ( first blog!)

Good Morning All!


        Today felt like a perfect day to get this blog up and running! Woke up with 100 things I needed to update the world on. I decided to start a blog so that all of my amazing family and friends can keep informed throughout this amazing journey.  SOOOOO.....in case you have not heard IM MOVING TO THAILAND JAN 2013 (with the Peace Corps)  annnnddd I RETURN IN 2015!!!! I know I know... "WHAT! OMG! ARE YOU SERIOUS! WOW TWO YEARS! NOOOO! I NEED YOU HERE! WHAT IF I GET MARRIED OR HAVE KIDS!" I've heard it all since announcing my latest endeavor. For the life of me I cant understand why so many are so surprised. Anyone who knows me knows I cant sit still for too long. The decision to accept my invitation to Thailand was not an easy one.  Everything was falling in place for me. I recently graduated from the University of Ga with my Masters in Social Work.  I had a job that I love, doing what I love, with great people. I was semi settling into the Athens, Ga life with my amazing friends and little big brother. And all of a sudden as I was eating lunch with a great friend of mine I receive an email.  She will tell you, my heart and head were racing, my hands were shaking, and the only thing I could think was "is this really happening?".
           
          This process was long and extensive to say the least.  Although I knew I applied, I had not heard any updates recently,  I assumed either I did not make this departure date or it was not in God's time.  I accepted both and moved on.  Well apparently, I was wrong.  I then did one of the only things I know to do when I am overwhelmed with emotions; I called my amazing father! If you have never met this man... YOU SHOULD.  The excitement and calm in his voice brought instant ease to my heart and mind. It took about 2 days (out of the 7 the Peace Corps allows for response) for me to pray and to realize that if this was not part of HIS plan for me, this door would not have been opened.  Since that day I have not felt any emotion other than excitement ( no nervousness or anything haha YET) And that brings us to today!
       If you are wondering what I will be doing here are my duties
                 Improve life skills and adopting healthier sexual and reproductive
            health practices. The Ministry of Education has defined and
            prioritized the following as life skills.  
        o Appreciation for one’s own and other’s values
        o Analyzing, making decisions and solving problems
                    creatively
        o Building relationships with others
        o Emotion development and stress management 
         • Develop skills for today’s work force including improving
           English, understanding of basic finances and developing
           leadership skills.  
         • Engage in serving learning so that youth are community advocates
         • Engage caregivers and youth service providers

EXCITED YET! haha! I know I am! The month of December brings alot of sad times ( ending and closing pretty much everything)  with the understanding that a new experience awaits! Also the month of December brings celebration i.e. brother's senior football gala, a number of graduates, and BIRTHDAYSSSS!! which means fun times and new memories with my wonderful family and friends.  Between All of these fun-filled events, I have to find time to pack up, RIDE MY BIKE (hahaha), and prepare for departure.  At this point, I may be a little behind on the packing up part =).  The excitement has been overwhelming lately and it sends me off task, googling Thailand and everything about it.  I will get it together TODAY ...hopefully. 

          

             A few important updates and reminders before I bring this first blog to a close...     1) please keep me in your prayers 2) I recently found out that my staging (orientation) will be in SAN FRANCISCO, CALI! anyone who is there on Jan 10 let me know!!!! 3) We are having a drop in early Dec 22 at my father's house in Augusta, Ga! I would love to see all of my families and babies 4) We are partying one last time, also in Aug, at XS LIVE on the 22nd as well.  5) I will be moving out of Athens soon any help would be great hahah ( free food for whomever volunteers) 6) Lastly, Dont forget to add this blog to your list of faves and check in! 

           
       Sawatdi ( goodbye in Thai actually its hello too but the Thai language is tonal pray for me hahah) or should i say Laeo Phop Kan Mai ( see you later =) )

Love you all!